dailyplanit Daily PlanIt Emotions-Understanding Emotions

Thoughts Cause Feelings
    Albert Ellis shows that our interpretations of events determine our feelings:
    Event Thought Feeling
    Example: You see someone sitting at a table crying. You think they must be sad, and feel concern and sympathy.
    Then you look down at the table and see the person is cutting an onion. You think the onion is causing them to cry, and feel relief that nothing is wrong.

Postpone reactions until thoughtful decisions about how to act and what to say have been made. Examine perceptions for possible inaccuracies. Emotions may be hidden under other emotions. Take the time to identify what the feeling truly is. Decide if the issue is important to you and if your feelings are appropriate. Consider the impact of what you plan to say or do.


 
  1