dailyplanit Daily PlanIt Emotions-Managing  Emotions

Breathing
Learning to control breathing is a terrific method for handling emotions, relaxing, and increasing the flow of oxygen to the brain. Breathe with the diaphragm by placing a hand above the navel and below the rib cage to feel the hand lift upon inhaling deeply. Daily practice strengthens skill.

Relaxation Response
developed by Herbert Benson
    1. sit comfortably in a quiet environment
    2. close your eyes
    3. relax all muscles
    4. breathe slowly, focusing on a selected word such as "one"
    5. do not worry about achieving relaxation. if distracting thoughts occur, simply return to practice
    6. Continue 10-20 minutes
    7. practice once or twice a day

Guided Imagery
Create a quiet, relaxing scene in your mind.

Listen to relaxing music or nature sounds.

Exercise
    Any kind of physical exercise is good for stress reduction.

Conflict Resolution
    Respect the right to disagree
    Express your real concerns
    Share common goals and interests
    Open yourself to different points of view
    Listen carefully to all proposals
    Understand the major issues involved
    Think about probable consequences
    Imagine several possible alternative solutions
    Offer some reasonable compromises
    Negotiate mutually fair cooperative agreements

--Robert E. Valett


 
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